well I called my mom and got her take on the whole thing. she thinks maybe I'm to clingy and that I scared him off. or maybe that he just needs to back off and figure out his priorities and how he feels about me. which is slightly scary because if that man told me he was interested in me I have no idea what I would do. probably awkwardly stare at his beautiful eyes and wait until he said something of an easier topic.
I'm still praying for him and I'll be here if he ever wants to talk to me again. I just hope that mom is right and that he doesn't hate me.